COMMUNICATION IN THE TRUMP ERA

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"we have lost the privilege of being complicated"

Nu·ance - (Noun) - a subtle difference in or shade of meaning , or sound

As a generation and as humanity , I believe we have lost the privilege of being complicated* . Every person is a deeply layered and complex human being but we treat each other simply . We each have a complex life situation and story from which we view and experience through a lens that is completely unique . And further , we are given an amazing tool to express that complexity . Words . Words to write , to speak , to share the exactness of our own uniqueness . Words that in near infinite combination and context can express exactly what we want to share with the world and contribute to our combined humanity . This privilege lost couldn’t be more prominent coming into President Donald Trump's Inauguration .

We had the privilege . Through centuries of human history , scholars , philosophers , writers , and other great minds have brought language to an unparalleled level . We have more access . We have more ways of sharing ideas that may separates us due to geography or ideas that may bind us together because of common human experience . But we lost that privilege . We hadn’t lost it as much as we’ve sort of casted it aside . Like a chore we waited till the weekend to take care of . We skip a couple weekends and then soon we just never bother to get to it . We’re out of practice .

For your parents , a helpful way to get chores done in the house

We use oversimplified generalizations and phrasing to talk about complex , nuanced and weighted subject matter . We read other people’s posts using oversimplified generalizations and phrasing to talk about complex, nuanced and weighted issues . And when we disagree with them , even though we’re probably not getting all the information , we attack them with more oversimplified generalities and phrasing . Then 3 comments down , no one understands anything anyone is explaining so the argument becomes name calling and internet bullying . A virtual puffing of the chest while typing on an ergonomic keyboard between checking Snapchat .

Spittin' my fire with proper wrist placement and designed efficiency

This isn’t everyone . There are plenty of people that are trying to communicate with an exactitude of a threading needle . But most of that is being over shouted by the big bold banners of people yelling their words expressing emotion . Everyone should be able to yell out their feelings if they wish to do that but just know that yelling isn’t having a conversation . Yelling your feelings is self serving , it’s a release for the person doing the yelling , it’s not to explain or to communicate information for the other side to process and understand . And just like real life , internet yelling doesn’t result in conversation . Internet yelling matches only ever results to more yelling , name calling , and bigotry . The lowest of our humanity .

Communication and gaining another point of view is the way to understand difference . You don’t have to agree but you empathize and relate and have a mutual raft to stand on in dealing with issues looking for common ground . That’s the way to resolution . The other way is war , it’s killing people , it’s yelling , and belittling and beating up the people who don’t agree with you so you don’t have to deal with them .

We’ve lost the privilege of being complicated because we’re not allowed it . People won’t stand for complicated . They don’t have time for it . They don’t have energy for it . Its too complicated . Life is hard enough already . Google and Facebook already designed the algorithm almost to a point where you don’t have to be confronted with an opposing view . But is that what we are now ? We’re only gonna hang out with people we agree with about everything ?

I’m not innocent from this . I don’t always take the time to properly explain myself , or to seek more information before I get all hot and bothered . To ask for clarification or to seek first to understand . I might not be in the habit of writing and posting fire all over my Twitter , but I have sat in my chair and set fire to my laptop with my eyes .

I am trying and I’m asking anyone reading this to try it (if you’re not doing it already.) To ask people to explain themselves more and explain as best they can to exactly what the heart of the issue is before formulating a response . And when I do respond , to not attack their character , but only to address the exact issue at hand to the best of my knowledge . To let their information sink in a bit , to take a minute to see it from their eyes , and then share my own experience and knowledge . It should be an exchange , an exchange of information , and an exchange in humanity .

I realize that this only works if all parties are on the same page about this or else you're really just talking to a wall

Donald Trump will officially become the 45th President of the United States tomorrow . Nothing is clear as to what that means or what is going to happen but there are definitely going to be a lot of heavy social issues to be addressed in the coming 4 years , and I believe the only way a large group of people can come together and properly address these issues is if we’re all respect each other enough to clearly communicate .

I will be posting here as a way to promote communication and conversation . I will sometimes address issues directly or just write about communication in general . Please come back and contribute , leave comments or share these posts along with your own thoughts . All that I ask is that we treat the topics with the respect , nuance and the complexity that it deserves . Looking forward to hearing from you .

Hello ? It's the 90's , the people want their long Xanga post and stupid jokes back

*I first saw the “privilege of being complicated” phrase (which inspired this post) as a partial phrase used by Eddie Huang as a way to explain that marginalized people of America aren’t given that privilege . I used it in a different meaning but I’d thought I share the source of the inspiration for this post . You can find his article here .

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/01/14/opinion/sunday/hey-steve-harvey-who-says-i-might-not-steal-your-girl.html?_r=0

FAREWELL PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA | THE END OF AN ERA

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"He made me care and he made me proud"

I’d be the first one to tell you that I don’t know everything about politics . I’m not familiar with all the issues , nor an expert of any issues or issue . Of political , sociological , environmental , cultural impact , I get it from the same sources most people do , the internet . I’m not on the streets , I’m not at the meetings , and the only rally’s I’ve gone to in the last decade has been an almost extinct retro hamburger joint in the suburbs of Anaheim . I'm not an expert .

What I can write about expertly and authoritatively is my own experience of these last eight years . These last eight years with our 44th President and the impact that his presidency had on my life and why I will miss him dearly .

From memories of child hood and first moving to America at the age of 8 , I have thus far lived through President George Bush Sr , two terms with President Bill Clinton , and two terms with President George W. Bush . Through all of those Presidents , I have been largely uninspired . Not from a lack education mind you . Through high school , I studied government . I was in AP Comparative Government , and was involved in four years of Model United Nations , all of which educated me on

many of the issues in the world ranging from aids and overpopulation to disarmament of WMD’s and Middle East conflicts which I kept up with through college on my own time . Information wasn’t my problem . It was hopelessness . I felt that , as many people of my generation at that time felt , there was such an overpower feeling of “what’s the point?” . The world seem to happen to us rather than because of us . Soon after college , I didn’t cared when the current President spoke

or made speeches . When I did tune in and felt the need to at least stay informed , I was met with what ranged from uninspired to disdain . Soon enough , most of what I heard about the President and the state of the government were the punch lines from late night talk shows and satire from TV shows and the internet . No faith , no hope , no idea where things were going or reason to care why it was going there . The world was happening to me .

"Staring determinedly into a blurry second term | Circa 2012

There are many reasons for these feelings and I’m sure many papers have been written . I’m also sure that a lot of these problems stem from the individual . I could of fixed the issue myself and try to stay active in doing what many people have done in the past . But that’s the problem with feeling hopeless . I didn’t see a point in trying any of that .

Sassier side of our President | circa 2012

Here comes Barack Obama , the 44th president . the first black President with a message of hope , and message of “Yes , we can.” He’s the first president of the social media generation , elected largely by the social media generation . 67% precent of voting age American citizens are active on social media and 66% of those citizens engage in political activism on those networks . He won nearly 70 precent of the vote among Americans under the age of 25 . The highest percentage since the U.S. exit polling began in 1976 . Much like President Kennedy , he found the right avenue and the right time to deliver his message .

Maybe it is because I’m in the right age group , but I was moved by him from almost the beginning . Through the many years that followed , he offered a brand of presidency that at the very least , made me want to tune in , wanted to be informed , wanted to be apart of .

I didn't always agree with all of his moves in the White House . But in a country of 318.9 million citizens , 89,004 local governments , 50 state governments , 435 House Representatives , 100 senators , and lord knows how many government agencies , it is an impossible task to please everyone at the same time . The American government is set up as a complex system with many moving parts all pulling and pushing in many directions each with their own agenda and representing their own segment of the American public . Not a single government official, even as Commander and Chief , can shoulder all the issues and be responsible for every decision that comes to pass . Often times , a decision on one issue is rarely done singlehandedly , many people are involved in one decision and as shown by every conceivable television show or movie ever made about government work and the Presidency , the job is more attuned to playing a couple games of chess simultaneously than checkers . Every move has fall out , some public and some quite the contrary . I've held that scope for every President , not just President Obama .

I imagine that it looked a lot like this except instead of chess pieces , they're playing with human lives

The Commander and Chief does have a task that no other position requires and that is to act as a figure head and a public face for the American Government . He stands in front of the American public , in front of the international community , and speaks in representation of what America is and stands for . He’s there to offer inspiration to the disenfranchised , solicit eyes and ears to prominent issues plaguing the nation , and to be an unequivocal representation to the dignity and standards of America .

And to that , President Barack Obama had in spades .

He made me proud and he made me care

You can disagree with his politics , you can argue against his policies , and you can stifle laugher at his White House correspondents’ dinner speeches . His legacy is still to be decided but you can’t deny the fact that he engaged the public with a gravitas that we haven’t seen in quite sometime .

I will be completely honest and state that I haven’t done everything that I can to be more politically active . As I’ve said , “to get in the streets” and dive into the issues . But as someone , who 8 years ago , gave no shits about what was happening in the world around me , I will say that his time in the Oval Office , has made me open my eyes and offered me hope for a chance to not let the world just happen to me but that I can effectively take part in the process and be proud of it . To that , I can’t thank him enough

To President Barack Obama ,

Thank you sir . Thank you for 8 years of incredible service . Thank you for bringing dignity to our country’s leadership through the hills and valleys of changing times . For the millions of people you have inspired to participate , seek knowledge , made to believe and to gain faith , we will never forget

It was an honor to have lived in this time and bear witness

In spite of people of different political power publicly declaring that they'll do anything and everything they can do stop him , he still managed to find a way to be great . If that isn't an all American story I don't know what is

*the photos used for this post are not my own .

COMMUNICATION IN THE TRUMP ERA

FAREWELL PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA | THE END OF AN ERA

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